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10 SIGNS YOUR SPOUSE MAY BE CHEATING ON YOU
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You have that feeling in your gut that something isn't right. Something is off. But you can't exactly put your finger on it. Perhaps your husband has been coming home late and acting more secretive than normal. Or, maybe it's your wife who has suddenly changed her image, almost like she's trying to impress someone. No one wants to believe that their spouse could be having an affair, but this happens more than we like to admit.
Here are ten classic signs that your spouse may be cheating. Sign #1: Changing Habits All of a sudden, your husband starts changing his habits, such as leaving for work early, coming home late or even trading in the family van for a new fashionable car. It could be a midlife crisis, but if it is, he shouldn't be secretive about his behavior. Sign #2: Unexplained Items Have you noticed your wife with new clothes? Pieces of jewelry that may not be from a great aunt after all? Or maybe your husband keeps odd items in his car, such as blankets and cologne. Other questionable items that could indicate an affair include hotel keys, ticket stubs and restaurant receipts. Sign #3: Excessive Spending Unexplained spending is another red flag. Are there charges to your credit card that look suspicious? Large withdrawals from the ATM? If money is going out the window and your spouse can't explain why, it's possible that it may be funding an affair. Which leads to our next sign... Sign #4: Secretive Accounts Some cheating spouses think the best way to hide their spending is by taking control of the family's finances. Or, they may take out new credit cards or set up an account in their name only. Sign #5: Hidden Bills and Letters It's also suspicious if your husband begins hiding letters, stashing away bills or even having mail forwarded to a new address. In fact, people who hire private investigators are often shocked to learn that their cheating spouse had a secret mailbox. Sign #6: Strange Communication The phone rings at night, you answer, and the person hangs up. Or, you may notice that your wife receives text or email messages that are written in a coded language. This secretive, odd communication is another red flag. Sign #7: Social Media Activity It may seem childish, but you can learn a lot from social media. Some of the telltale signs that your spouse may be in another relationship: a separate profile, checking in places that you weren't invited to or conversations, tags and status updates with a person of interest. Sign #8: Extra Grooming Your husband may be spending more money on expensive clothes, dying his hair or driving around a luxury car. The body he was once happy with isn't cutting it anymore. It could be that he wants to improve himself, but it could be that he's working hard for another reason...or person... Sign #9: Business Trips This is the one you probably see in the movies, but it's not far off from real life. Business trips are the perfect excuse to get away for the weekend and have limited contact, thus giving attention to an extramarital affair. You'll know when the business trips don't line up with his job description anymore. Sign #10: Picking Fights A cheating spouse is always on the defense. If you find that all of a sudden, your spouse is constantly picking fights, making hurtful remarks or being unusually defensive about their whereabouts, keep your eyes open, especially if the behavior doesn't pass. What do you do if you believe your husband or wife is cheating? Contact a private investigator who can collect real information and get you the answers you need. |
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A few articles written by Mr. Claude Ammons: Obvious Signs of Cheating , Flirting or Cheating , Preventing Infidelity
“PROTECT YOUR FUTURE, PROTECT YOUR FAMILY”
“Catching-Cheaters.com Detectives & Investigators.”
INTRODUCTION TO INFIDELITY: Cheating Wife & Cheating Husband
ADULTERY / CHEATING / INFIDELITY can have a truly devastating impact on children, external family members, lives, spirituality and financially. Rather than live in fear of the possibility that your spouse is committing infidelity or remain paralyzed by a betrayal that has taken place, you can educate yourself on infidelity and empower yourself to prevent infidelity from happening. Infidelity Investigations can end your fear & anxiety, by discreetly providing you with the Truth!
The following is an overview of the different adultery terms, forms of infidelity, its causes, negative effects, and the visible signs of infidelity: However, the goal of this information is aide readers in preventing infidelity, identifying infidelity, and forgiving infidelity (regardless if a Divorce occurs or not).
Adultery Defined: Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than the lawful spouse.
Cheating Defined: A deception for profit to yourself and or not faithful to a spouse or lover.
Infidelity Defined: Unfaithfulness to a sexual partner, especially a spouse and or lack of loyalty or religious belief.
Infidelity as explained by Debbie Then, Author of “Women Who Stay with Men Who Stray”. Regardless of their religious orientation, most people agree and understand that marriage vows implicitly and explicitly include a promise of “forsaking all others”. When this promise is broken, infidelity has occurred in a marriage.
Renowned psychologist and marital researcher Shirley Glass, author of several books on the subject of infidelity, estimates that ”25% of wives and 44% of husbands” have committed infidelity. This, however, does not include emotional infidelity & affairs in which no sexual activity has taken place.
Statistics on the frequency of adultery or infidelity in the United States are hotly debated and difficult to gauge accurately.
However, you can see by Internet search engine results for the word cheater, cheating, infidelity or adultery. There are plenty of companies advertising to the many Internet searchers who input those keywords. It is obvious from these numerous search results that infidelity and or cheating is becoming acceptable to the masses. Nonetheless, there are some of us who understand that it is wrong for more reasons than one.
Believe it or not?There are approx. 19 States in our country that still considers infidelity a punishable crime.
“PROTECT YOUR FUTURE, PROTECT YOUR FAMILY”
“Catching-Cheaters.com Detectives & Investigators.”
INTRODUCTION TO INFIDELITY: Cheating Wife & Cheating Husband
ADULTERY / CHEATING / INFIDELITY can have a truly devastating impact on children, external family members, lives, spirituality and financially. Rather than live in fear of the possibility that your spouse is committing infidelity or remain paralyzed by a betrayal that has taken place, you can educate yourself on infidelity and empower yourself to prevent infidelity from happening. Infidelity Investigations can end your fear & anxiety, by discreetly providing you with the Truth!
The following is an overview of the different adultery terms, forms of infidelity, its causes, negative effects, and the visible signs of infidelity: However, the goal of this information is aide readers in preventing infidelity, identifying infidelity, and forgiving infidelity (regardless if a Divorce occurs or not).
Adultery Defined: Voluntary sexual intercourse between a married person and a partner other than the lawful spouse.
Cheating Defined: A deception for profit to yourself and or not faithful to a spouse or lover.
Infidelity Defined: Unfaithfulness to a sexual partner, especially a spouse and or lack of loyalty or religious belief.
Infidelity as explained by Debbie Then, Author of “Women Who Stay with Men Who Stray”. Regardless of their religious orientation, most people agree and understand that marriage vows implicitly and explicitly include a promise of “forsaking all others”. When this promise is broken, infidelity has occurred in a marriage.
Renowned psychologist and marital researcher Shirley Glass, author of several books on the subject of infidelity, estimates that ”25% of wives and 44% of husbands” have committed infidelity. This, however, does not include emotional infidelity & affairs in which no sexual activity has taken place.
Statistics on the frequency of adultery or infidelity in the United States are hotly debated and difficult to gauge accurately.
However, you can see by Internet search engine results for the word cheater, cheating, infidelity or adultery. There are plenty of companies advertising to the many Internet searchers who input those keywords. It is obvious from these numerous search results that infidelity and or cheating is becoming acceptable to the masses. Nonetheless, there are some of us who understand that it is wrong for more reasons than one.
Believe it or not?There are approx. 19 States in our country that still considers infidelity a punishable crime.
According to Don-David Lusterman, Author of”Infidelity: A Survival Guide”, Infidelity can take on several different forms. Lusterman defines an affair as an extramarital involvement that takes place over time. Affairs can be emotionally intense but non-sexual relationship, purely sexual relations with no emotional bond, or can include both sexual and emotional relations.
Nonetheless, while adultery is generally defined as voluntary sexual intercourse between a married man or married woman with someone other than his or her spouse. Experts disagree on precisely what infidelity entails. However, a growing consensus (backed by Biblical Scriptures from both the Old & New Testament) that cheating is not limited to sexual unfaithfulness, but that it also occurs when a spouse forms a strong emotional attachment outside of marriage.
* Scripture Examples *
Proverbs 6:25-26 (NIV) – Old Testament
” Do not lust in your heart after her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes, for the prostitute reduces you to a loaf of bread, and the adulteress preys upon your very life .”
Matthew 5:27-28 – New Testament
” You have heard that it was said, ” You shall not commit adultery. 28- ” But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart “.
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